Tuesday, July 31, 2012

Bob the Cat- the day he died




The day Bob died ( the first time)

They say cats have seven lives right?  Well yesterday our cat BOB died…and came back to life…( no not literally…keep reading) 

Elijiahs piano teacher is a friend, but also the mother of our neighbor Genevieve….and as such Naveve the piano teacher comes to our home, knows our cats, is a cat lover herself etc… 

Well on her way out of our neighborhood she called Gen( our neighbor) and said…you might want to call Amber and ask if Bobs in the house….I think it’s a possibility however that if not, Bob has been run over…it looks like Bob that has just been hit on the road….Gen immediately called me and asked if Bob was around and I said nope, put him outside this am, why? And so she told me.  Well as you can imagine I was very worried – Elijiah and I got in the car and went over to where the cat was hit and was killed.  We knew it was bob.  It was him.  100% sure.  However my first thought was where was his collar?  Then I dismissed it as it could have easily fallen off when he was struck….Elijiah was completely distraught as Bob was “his” cat.  Always favored by him and Bob took to him specifically as well…..anyway Im on the side of the road not exactly sure what to do- so I call Jonathan at work and he decided to leave work and come get him from the side of the road and we could have a proper burial later that night.  Genevieve called me at the same time told me to go home and she was coming to do the grisly deed of picking him up so Elijiah didn’t need to be waiting anymore etc. 
So the day begins…. 

Jonathan arrives home a few minutes after Gen delivers “Bob” in a cardboard box to our house and Jonathan inspects him as well and determines yes its Bob but likewise wonders about the collar….So he spent the next 30 minutes constructing a coffin for our precious cat wraps him and seals the box and we decide to bury “Bob” in the backyard later that night.  He had to get back to work and while I was trying to work from home yesterday- the events, Elijiahs continued sadness and crying were a bit of a distraction so I was fairly unproductive for a while…. 

Anyway about an hour later Jonathan emails me….saying something along the lines that as he was at the scene of the crime…he looked extensively around for Bobs collar….Elijiah really wanted it and we thought that we could frame it for him and it would be a good memory piece…so he says that while he couldn’t find it he had a doubt that perhaps it wasn’t Bob” even though he had handled the cat himself…he wasn’t sure now.  I immediately pushed him off saying to myself “ HELLO how many cats look EXACTLY like him in the neighborhood and of course its Bob! 

But then I felt the same….maybe it was a twinner and we didn’t know there was another cat just like him!  Jonathan decided that when he returned home he would open the casket…check the cat for front claws( we had Bob declawed).  So in the mean time…we had been searching through old photos for memories, ones that we could frame in the house of Bob and the kids…and talking about if we should get another cat…..Gen had come over with Dinner for us- and she and I were swapping funny and sad cat stories….

Jonathan came home with Tristan ( which Tristan was super funny…marching up to the neighbors to announce that Bob had died) and so the yucky task of looking over the mangled dead cat became Jonathans…. 

He discovered claws….so immediately Jonathan told us….um….this isn’t Bob!  Elijiah lit up!  Tristan said “What? Bobs not dead?” and all the grieving and crying of the day was replaced by….we almost buried someone elses cat in our yard!  And since its not Bob whos is it?  Well Sherrell- Gens daughter told us that her friends cat that looked like Bob disappeared about a month ago and it could be theirs… 

Well long story short after Jonathan retrieved the cat yet again for another families inspection, comparing photographs it was determined it was indeed their cat.  So we provided them the ready made casket( albeit we turned some of the panels the opposite direction so they didn’t see our RIP BOB with dates and loving inscriptions…we handed “Bob” over to them to take home. 

Jonathan was a little sick to his stomach given the handling of the dead cat so many times during the day and wouldn’t you know…not an hour later…BOB comes sauntering up to the backyard fine as can be of course….which made us all a little more happy to see him and appreciate the silly thing.  After the days events Jonathan did a very indepth inspection of Bob and did say that honestly the markings and specific size and everything were identical…it was really the collar/claws that made the difference to us knowing it wasn’t our cat. 

So Elijiah is happy….we are happy, but likewise it was a very odd and emotional day in which Bob came back from the dead.

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